Extremely Negative people can ruin your life but only if you let them do!
When reading this article, please keep in mind that this article is not to blame others, but to protect us from extremely negative people. You also have to accept the fact that negativity is still active inside of us.
Definition of Negativity
Negativity is the expression of criticism of or pessimism about something. (Source: Oxford Dictionary)
Negativity is one of our personal behavioral problems, and we are all born with it. But this is not a simple case, because the problem can spread to an extreme level and cause serious psychological and physical distraction on the person himself or on any other person nearby. Self-destruction may not be visible while it is in effect, but it will surely become a serious cause for other personal life disorders.
We can’t deny the fact that Negativity was born and is still active within us. But have you ever met a person who is always arguing or talking in the opposite direction when we express our good thoughts or when we talk about something that is clear to understand? That is an extremely negative person.
Source of Extreme Negativity
One thing we can be sure of is that every human behavior is inherited from other sources. Let’s look at some recognized sources of extreme negativity.
- Parent’s Inheritance
It is biological issue which one can not control it for the inheritance, but surely a person can control himself/herself from showing such weird behavior. Getting out this situation may take some time (surely months) and even require a change of place and culture.
- Inheritance of Lifestyle
In this situation, the sources could be friends, coworkers, and the community. Other private behaviors and conditions could also be the reason for the growth of extreme negativity or for the change of natural negativity to extreme negativity. Such behaviours and conditions are repetitive failure, apathy, arrogance, and etc.
- Inheritance of Nature Energy
This might be related to Lifestyle Inheritance, but it’s also something extraordinary because we know that something can’t be accomplished easily in this globe. This is very common in nature. And at the same time, negative and positive energies are at work, battling each other to become a leading force of nature.
So it’s the reality that nature itself is the cause of extreme negativity. This is because an individual can develop by obtaining unseen energy from nature.
Some weird behaviors of extremely negative people
1. Saying “NO” to everything
NO is a negative response or reaction to any concept or a direct question. Extremely negative people use it all the time without even understanding the details of the issue. Whether in the office or at home, if a person is already possessed by extremely negative behavior, we’ll hear him saying “NO” all the time.
2. Showing unexpected facial expression
We humans express our feelings through different facial expressions. We’re smiling to demonstrate that we’re happy right now, we’re totally freaking out our whole appearance to demonstrate that we’re surprised, we show anger face that we are sad for some reason.
So in the same way, a highly negative individuals are going to use diffrent physical manifestation. They will show us different kinds of facial expressions to let us understand that they are really NOT into our thoughts. Such as Squeez face, disagree face, false laughter, shouting and etc…
Ways to protect yourself from Extremely Negative People
1. Be reasonable in a very better way
If you really want to block or prevent the psychological attack from extremely negative people, you must have a well-organized reason to protect yourself. So when you start talking about something, they will give you a red line response to stop you, then you will give them back a good reason to talk about your issue, after that they won’t say anything!
2. Get out of their zone
Sometimes it’s always nice to get out of the area where their presence is already set up. If we see a simple example: If you have a coworker who always says “NO” to any of your thoughts, don’t let him/her find you in his / her area. So it is a simple way to protect yourself.
3. Be with compatible people
Start exploring and interacting with other good people. Exchange mutual reactions that will help you build up your relationship. So when extremely negative individuals see it, they’re going to begin fleeing from you, because they’re going to think that it’s just a waste of time to be with you and it is also a boost in anger.
4. Ignore them
If the situation is difficult or something complicated that will keep you stay in their zone, such as in office or family, what you have to do is just ignoring. Do what you have to do or what’s right in general perspective and let them talk alone, let them express their extremely negative behavior. So ignoring is a powerful and maybe the only way if you cant get out of their zone.
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